While they trade stories about soccer cleats by the door and forgotten homework, I memorize exits, locks, the sound of silence before a child runs. Their motherhood is carpools, mine is vigilance. They pack snacks for practice, I pack emergency plans into every pocket of my mind. They talk about milestones like stepping stones.. first sleepover, first school dance, first time riding bikes alone. I celebrate things no one sees: a new food touched to lips, a grocery trip without panic, a haircut without tears, five peaceful minutes in a loud room. Their exhaustion is accepted. Mine is questioned. Because my child may not “look autistic” while my whole nervous system stands guard like a storm shelter. They post smiling school pictures. I carry grief beside gratitude, love beside loneliness, because motherhood can hold both at once. I love my child with a fierceness that has changed the shape of me. But some days I ache watching other mothers...
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